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Saturday, September 11, 2010

Newly Wedded, and the story behind it...

As most of you know I am once again a Newly Wed! And as most of you know.. That was out of plan! I have been informed several times.. that I have a lot of explaining to do! Since this was such a fast and unexpected move. I apologize! I know this is long over due for most of you!!

After my Divorce with Nathan I had no interest in jumping in or even sliding into a relationship... At least not for a year.. I wanted to take a year off!... Re-build myself and keep things as simple as a single working mother can. And I most certainly wasn't planning on getting married!! ...I thought maybe when Will's in High School, I'll finally find someone. I thought it was going to take a lot of searching and heart aches... Stuff I didn't even want to glance at yet. Dating, getting married, wasn't something in my plans!

Well as usual, my plans didn't mean a thing!
I met Josh working at Sears during June sometime, I think.. I can't even pin a date... cause well.. I wasn't really looking and didn't care! - At the time I didn't care anyways.
This smart ass, nice looking man would come into my work, and well.. flirt. He always made me laugh and left me with a smile. My Co-workers noticed something right off, that neither one of us did. After he would leave..my boss.. being the way she is.. would look him up and down.. very obviously, then look at me, and say some comment like "uh huh!" - Okay that's not all she would say, but I'm not about to post it here.. you can just imagine.. and most likely everything you imagine.. happened! -Then one day while he was flirting and keeping me from my work, he asked me for my cell number so he could send me a pic.. a pic he had took of.. me. And as they say.. the rest is history. ; )

We texted morning and night till I asked him one day if he was just strictly a texter or did he ever call anyone..and well with in a minute we were talking on the phone morning and night.
I forgot to mention.. that same day he asked for my number, we were talking about smoke alarms. (Josh is a volunteer fire fighter.) I mentioned that I didn't have any.. kind of a stretch on my part.. I have two.. just didn't think they worked.. I mean when flames were coming out of the oven.. they never went off! so in my mind.. I didn't have any! -So Him being the concerned fire fighter he is, bought me some, I thanked him and then said.. "who's going to install them?" (I mean I dono how!)... well he being the good concerned fire fighter he is, volunteered! -Once he arrived at my house.. he realized I did have smoke alarms. I had two, I just hadn't turned them on!.. So he informed me that I had tricked him into coming over! -WHAT!, not me!... (Good trick, don't ya think?? Got a sexy fireman over to my house! )Well needless to say, we fell in love...

Our first and well.. only date, we spent in Durango! .. I did the asking,.. if your wondering. ;) We went to the honey farm, caving, over to the Hot springs, and out for pizza that night!.. Made a full day of it!! And well that's the day we both realized,.. that we really loved each other! : )

I am a very picky woman thou.. and didn't want to be with someone who didn't match up to my list... Yes I just said I had a list!! Still do! He better always be matching up to it!! (Got that hun!?! ) ;)
Anyways.. One night after going over my list.. it just hit me! Why the heck wait!?!.. I can check mark pretty much 90% of my list off! (the whole he'd have to be a member of my church questions to answer, were the only ones I couldn't, and that could be fixed!) I love him! He is what I want! And waiting would only mean less time together and well money would be wasted! (with having to pay for separate houses and all).. so after church one beautiful afternoon.. I proposed! -It went something like this...(not exactly the proposal I had in mind thou..lol)...

Me- "You love me, right?"
Josh- "I do"
Me- "And I love you. We'd save a lot of money if you move in, you wanna move in?"
Josh- "UmmHmm"
Me- "Well there'd be a catch .. you can't move in, unless you marry me.?."
Josh- "K"
Me- "You mean you'll marry me?"
Josh - "Yes."

And there you have it! lol!! Classic huh!?! lol!!

We were married exactly 7 days later!! :)